The Benefits of Buying a Multi-Generational Home [INFOGRAPHIC]

KCM • November 14, 2023

The Benefits of Buying a Multi-Generational Home [INFOGRAPHIC]




Some Highlights

  • If you’re ready to buy a home but are having a hard time affording it on your own, or, if you have aging loved ones you need to care for, you might want to consider a multi-generational home.
  • Living with siblings, parents, and even grandparents can help you save money, give or receive childcare, and spend quality time together.
  • Let’s connect to find a home in our area that’s perfect for you and your loved one’s needs.


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By The Lighter Side of Real Estate May 31, 2026
If you’ve been wishing you could buy your first house, there’s a good chance the headlines are making you feel like it’s probably close to impossible. And to be fair, it’s not easy for a lot of first-time buyers who don’t have the advantage of equity from a previous home. Prices have gone up. Rates aren’t what they used to be. And rent hasn’t exactly been giving anyone a break either, which can make saving for a down payment feel like an uphill battle. It’s also pretty rare to hear anything that pushes back on that perspective. The overwhelming message is that housing is unaffordable, that first-time buyers are getting squeezed out, and that something needs to change to make it more accessible. So even if you’re doing pretty well financially, it’s not surprising if it still feels like buying a home is out of reach. It’s easy to assume you’re not in a position to buy simply because it feels like no one is. But it might not be a bad idea to test that assumption. Why It Might Feel Like You’re Further Behind Than You Are A recent article on Realtor.com touched on something called money dysmorphia. It’s a pretty simple idea. It’s when your perception of your financial situation doesn’t quite line up with reality. In other words, you might be doing better than you think, but it doesn’t feel that way. And that feeling can be influenced by a lot of things: What you see your peers posting on social media. What you hear from friends or coworkers. Or perhaps the constant stream of headlines talking about how expensive homes are. It can create this sense that everyone else is either way ahead of you… or that nobody can afford anything at all. On one hand, it can make you feel like you’re falling behind compared to what you see others doing. On the other hand, it can reinforce the idea that buying a home just isn’t realistic right now… even if your situation might suggest otherwise. Most people probably aren’t even aware that’s happening to them, so they don’t really question it. But now that you are, here are a few questions you might want to start asking yourself. Is it possible I’m actually in a position to buy a home? It might sound like a simple question, but it’s one a lot of people never seriously ask. If you’ve already assumed the answer is no, you may be skipping over the possibility that things aren’t as out of reach as they feel. What’s the worst that could happen if I try to find out? You’re not committing to anything by exploring your options. At worst, you confirm you’re not quite ready yet. At best, you realize you’re closer than you thought. What would I need to do to get a clear answer? This usually isn’t as complicated as it sounds. A quick look at your finances and a conversation with a lender can give you a much more accurate picture than guesswork or headlines. What if the answer is yes? That doesn’t mean you have to rush out and buy something tomorrow. It just means you have options—and you can start thinking about timing, strategy, and what makes sense for you. What if the answer is no? Even if you aren’t in a position to buy a house, at least you’ll get a feel for what you need to do to get yourself in a position to do so. Whether it’s saving a bit more, paying down debt, or improving credit, you can move forward with a plan instead of an assumption. Once you’ve worked through those questions, there’s really only one way to find out where you stand… and that’s to speak with a mortgage professional. Ideally, you’ll want someone who works with first-time buyers and is willing to walk you through things without making it feel overwhelming. They can guide you through the pre-approval process, which will give you a clear picture of whether you’re currently in a position to get a mortgage—or what you need to do to get there. A great way to find the right mortgage professional is to ask a local real estate agent for a recommendation. And while you’re at it, starting a relationship with an agent isn’t a bad idea either. Whether you’re ready now or further down the road, they can be extremely helpful in getting you from where you are today to where you want to be. The Takeaway: If you’ve been feeling like buying your first home is out of reach, you’re not alone. Between rising prices, higher rates, and constant headlines about affordability, it’s easy to assume it’s just not possible right now. But sometimes that feeling has just as much to do with perception as it does with reality. Due to something called money dysmorphia, it’s easy to underestimate where you stand financially, or assume you can’t afford something without ever really looking into it. Having a quick conversation with a mortgage professional can give you a much clearer picture. You may find you’re closer than you think… or at least know exactly what steps to take to get there.
By KCM May 29, 2026
What Most Veterans Don't Know About Their VA Home Loan Benefit Nearly half of Veterans (49%) feel homeownership is currently out of reach, according to a recent survey from NewDay USA. But many are closer than they think. And you might be, too. If you’re a Veteran, you probably know the Veterans Affairs (VA) home loan benefit exists – it's been around for over 80 years. What you might not know is what it actually covers. Three misconceptions trip up Veterans the most (see graph below): Any one of those beliefs could be holding you back. Let’s walk through all three, so you have the information you really need. You May Not Have To Put Any Money Down The potential to put zero money down is probably the biggest perk of a VA loan, but most homebuyers don’t even realize that’s an option. According to the NewDay USA survey, many respondents guessed they’d need to save somewhere between $10,000 and $19,900 before they could buy. That’s years of saving for an upfront cost that isn’t always required. You May Have Lower Closing Costs According to the Department of Veterans Affairs , with VA loans, there can be limits on the types of closing costs buyers have to pay. That means more money stays in your pocket on closing day – and you have less to save up for before you can buy. The benefit combined with the down payment perk can speed up your buying timeline. Your Monthly PMI Costs Could Be $0 Unlike many other loan options, VA loans typically don’t require private mortgage insurance (PMI), even with low or no money down. If you take out a conventional loan instead, you could pay $100 to $300 a month in PMI until you hit 20% equity, according to NewDay USA. Over time, that’s a difference of thousands of dollars. Your BAH & BAS May Help You Qualify for More If you’re on active duty or if you’re a qualifying reservist, your Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) and Basic Allowance for Subsistence (BAS) may count toward income qualification on a VA loan. So, if you were running the numbers without factoring your BAH or BAS in, you could qualify for more than you thought. Both BAH and BAS are non-taxable, so they can help raise the amount you can qualify for. Bottom Line VA home loans can put homeownership within reach, and a trusted lender can help make sure you understand the details before you move forward. If you’re active duty, you’ve served, or know someone who has, connect with a trusted lender who can walk you through whether you’d qualify and what the VA benefit offers. You may be able to buy a home sooner than you thought.
By KCM May 24, 2026
Stay or Sell? How To Make the Right Call as You Age At some point, as you start thinking about the years ahead , this question tends to come up: “Could I stay here long-term… or would it make more sense to move?” It’s not always urgent. It often shows up in small moments, like going up and down the stairs, keeping up with the maintenance, or just thinking about what the next chapter of your life might look like in this home. And for most people, the answer is simple. They want to stay. The USC Leonard Davis School of Gerontology found about 90% of adults over 65 prefer to stay in their homes as they get older (see below): But even if staying feels like the right answer, it’s still worth thinking ahead about what that might actually look like. That’s where the right agent can really help. What You Need To Plan for If You’re Staying in Your Home Aging in place is definitely possible. But it’s better if you have a plan. And here’s why. The home that once worked perfectly may need to change with you over the years. And it’s easier if you can anticipate those expenses. Sometimes that means small updates: like adding grab bars in the shower. Other times, you’ll have to make bigger decisions: like reworking layouts or moving key spaces to the first floor. Some of those changes are going to be simple. Others can be a meaningful investment. And that’s why thinking about it early matters. Not because you need to decide anything right now, but because it gives you time. Time to understand what your home may need. Time to explore your options. Time to find the right contractors. Time to space out the expense of the upgrades. According to ElderLife Financial, here's a rough baseline of what it could cost depending on what needs to be done (see below): And don’t worry. If your heart is really set on staying, but the costs feel like a concern, it helps to know you have options. Depending on your situation, there may be financial assistance programs available, along with tools like home warranties to help manage unexpected costs. Just remember, if you’re thinking about making updates, it’s always worth having a quick conversation before you start. A real estate agent can help you understand which changes tend to make sense for your situation and how they may impact your home’s value based on your local market. When Moving Might Make More Sense But staying isn’t always the best fit for every situation. According to Pegasus Senior Living: “While most seniors hope to age in place, practical considerations sometimes make selling a home the wiser choice.” Sometimes, it comes down to a simple shift: when the home that once made life easier, starts to make it harder. That might look like: Maintenance or yardwork that's starting to feel overwhelming Stairs or layouts that are getting harder to manage day-to-day Or needing more support or care or being too far from loved ones And sometimes, it’s not about necessity at all. It’s about lifestyle. Some homeowners just don’t want to live through major renovations. Others are ready to simplify, downsize , or move somewhere that better fits this next chapter, whether that’s a smaller home, a 55+ community, or a place closer to family. For them, moving simply means making daily life easier. Bottom Line There’s no one-size-fits-all answer here. Some people stay and make updates. Others move to simplify things. Either can be the right choice. The goal isn’t to pick one today. It’s to understand your options early, so when the time comes, you feel confident instead of rushed. And if you ever want a sounding board to think through what the future could look like for you, let’s connect.
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